Discipline and Desire: Unexpected Doorways to Happiness
It has been over two months since I published any new writing on this blog. I started to feel really bad about this about a month ago, as I had…
An Introduction to the OAR and BEL Models of Ontological Coaching
The OAR (Observer, Action, Results) and BEL (Body, Emotions, Language) models provide a simple way to understand how ontological coaching works. I share these models with new clients to set…
Empowered Relationships: Understanding the Tyrant and the Doormat
I stumbled into my own personal discovery of a tool called polarity mapping during the certified coach training program at Newfield Network. One of our assignments instructed us to reflect on…